Proverbs of 37 yr old man
Some of the best things in life are enjoyed in moderation. You can ruin a good thing with the lack of self control. Even moral virtues like patience, love, and peace can be indulged improperly by our flesh. Only through the Spirit of Christ living in us, can we produce such a peaceable fruit that their is no law of limitations! Able to enjoy and live a life of righteous freedom, and not use our freedom as an opportunity for the flesh. But instead, use your freedom as an opportunity to serve each other with love. Christs love controls us, and this is true self control. Enjoy the presence of Jesus without moderation. He will fill you with the rushing power of Living Water that forms a quiet strength and still restraint within you. Having a spirit of power, love and self-control.
Study Prov. 25:27
https://biblehub.com/proverbs/25-27.htm